What price? Happiness...

hey filzah dun read this... it is going to another of those sad posts... let me forewarn you first!
wanted the heading to say : what price friendship... but then i thought that it would be too blatantly glaring. oh my, what was the vocabulary that i just used? sometimes, the words just beat me to my senses... haha... anyway, had a lengthy talk with 'daphne'. yes it was daphne, well, quite lengthy i must admit... amazing that there were no tears to round it off. not like before. perhaps it would be different if it were face 2 face? perhaps so... then perhaps not... told daphne to really get on with life... i guess she really is getting on with life. but wat about the little distraction? well, she just needs to push it aside... i seriously think that there happens to be no big deal at all... you meet new people all the time... sometimes they click well with you... sometimes they don't, and when they don't... then it is wise to look beyond and learn to let go... there is no point in harping over it all the time... the more you harp over it... the worse the hard feelings will be.. and it will be even more deeply ingrained in the mind - you start to form images and perceptions of situations and words and language that are not there...
I will repeat again... it is even more foolish to conduct a heart to heart talk using penned letters and emails... such media retricts the very essence of the original intention... and that is the actual feelings that go with the words... without hearing the words from the person's mouth... it is very difficult to understand the emotions and feelings behid the words used... and so this leads to misunderstandings... lots of misunderstandings... gets us nowhere does it?

oh... and plesae do not drop tags to ask me what i am talking about... if you know you know... otherwise, you were probably not meant to read this particular entry... that's why you can't comprehend anything at all... xþ